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Men's Club

The St. Ann ’s Parish Men’s Club purpose is to encourage spiritual growth and a sense of community in the parish. 

The members assist in parish liturgical, operational, educational, and social and maintenance activities as directed
by the pastor and to maintain a liaison with the parish council and other parish organizations.

The men’s club members are a neat, diverse group of guys, most of who retired to Bethany from D.C., Baltimore,
Philadelphia and the Wilmington area. They have varied backgrounds in both the private and public sector,
but despite (or because of) their backgrounds, they are a special group of fun loving guys who do a lot for
their church and their community. 

We meet monthly (3rd Tuesday of the month), and run the parish Christmas party and the parish picnic. We also
sponsor a golf outing, a men’s retreat, and various other events. All men of the parish are most welcome and
encouraged to join. The yearly dues are minimal ($12).
 

 

 

Officers for 2009-2011

 
Chaplain Deacon Dennis Hayden 539 0106
President Tom Defibaugh 541-8269

Vice President

Jack Walsh

537-9579
Treasurer Vic DeGeorge 539-4674
Secretary Adolph Perticari 541-4452
     
 

Executive Board at Large Members

 
Clifford Embley   541-4174 
Neil Cooley   539-1426

 

ST. ANN’S MEN’S CLUB - MINUTES FOR MEETING  - TUESDAY, 15 SEPT. 2009

CALL TO ORDER by President Defibaugh, at 7:00 P.M.

OPENING PRAYER, LED BY Deacon Dennis Hayden

PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE RECITED BY THE MEMBERS
GOD BLESS AMERICA, LED BY Victor DeGeorge

WELCOME NEW MEMBERS AND GUESTS:
No new members.

DEACON’S CORNER: Deacon Dennis Thanked the Men’s Club for honoring him on his
25th Anniversary as Deacon. He spoke to us of the history of the Diaconate. In early times, most religious were Deacons. There were high standards for Deacons. Deacons had to be honest, sober, patient, good husbands, and Deacon Dennis, added, also good looking. Deacons were not compensated and wrote their own homilys. It was noted the first martyr was a deacon. During WWII, in the death camps, people prayed regularly for the Deacons. Deacons are considered The Figure of Christ, The Servant.

FAITH SHARING BY: No volunteers appeared.

TREASURER’S REPORT given By Victor DeGeorge.

Beginning Balance: $3634.00
Receipts: 1568.00
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Total Receipts: 5202.00

Disbursements: -1910.00

Sub Total: 3292.00

Closing Balance: (Bank Statement) - $3,184.00

READING OF PREVIOUS MINUTES:
Our Secretary read the previous minutes.
Treasurer’s report and Minutes were approved by membership.

SUNSHINE COMMITTEE: No update was available since the Sunshine Committee Chairman was not present. It was noted however, by different members that:
1. Harry Dice has recovered and was in attendance at the meeting.
2 Bill Middendorf’s wife Marion has come home from the hospital, but Mike Middendorf returned to the hospital.
3. Carol Cooper had an illness and is recovering.
4. Jack Stewart now has Alzheimer’s disease.
5. Deacon Freebery’s daughter has an illness.
6. A former member, Mr. Dan Casey, died on July 20th.

PRESIDENTS REPORT:

1. Joe Lane asked for volunteers for a highway cleanup on Route #17, October @ 10:00 AM
2. Neil MacFarlan sent a letter on his leaving our parish and will miss the St. Ann’s Men’s Club.
3. The Men’s Club donated $100 to the town of Ocean View for use of their park for our picnic.
4. The Military Archdiocese has sent a request to St. Ann’s for funds to help military needy.
5. The breakfast for the International Students was discussed.
6. Our newsletter was sent to all members. The newsletter contained a survey for members to complete. It will be evaluated by V. Pres. Walsh and will be discussed with the Pastoral Council.
7. Vice Pres. Walsh and other members met with Jen Scott of St. Ann’s Family Life Committee to discuss
Combining their annual picnic with the St. Ann’s Parish Picnic which the Men’s Cub sponsors, for next year, June 6, 2010. The Family Life Committee will hold their annual picnic this Oct. 4, from 3-5 PM, at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church grounds
8. Our annual Communion Breakfast is scheduled for November 1, at Cripple Creek Country Club.
9. Marianne Fike addressed the Club on the Marian Pilgrimage to the Nat’l. Shrine of the Immaculate
Conception in Wash., D.C., Saturday, Oct. 17. Bishop Michael Saltarelli will deliver the homily. Tickets are available for this trip @ $15. Bus leaves St. Ann’s @ 7:30 AM.
Larry Malanka discussed the meals on wheels program and said the program can a few more volunteers for the new Millsboro Route.
10. Most Blessed Sacrament School update: Enrollment has increased 10% to 241 students.
11. The Men’s Club is considering plans to provide funds for a TUITION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM
For MBS. The Men’s Club BOD together with Deacon Freebery, Dick Johnston and others are considering
Ways and Means to accomplish this goal, working with Father Kelley and the Parish Pastoral Council, formulate our approach and plans. The aim is to eventually establish a permanent annual fund, whereby the Parish, with help from The Men’s Club, can provide a portion of a students annual tuition at MBS.
12. PRES. TOM asked for volunteers to chair the CHRISTMAS PARTY and ST. PATRICK’S DAY PARTY.

GUEST SPEAKERS were DAVID KANE & KATIE BRINSFIELD, from MEDIACOM.
a. Mr. Kane discussed the upcoming contract with the Town of Bethany Beach for the Town’s area
cable services provider. The contract expires this year.
b. Mr. Kane Explained that MEDIACOM must abide by the rulings of the Delaware Public Service Commission, (DPSC) which determines the rate process. Rates are based on Programming, and set by the DPSC. Mr. Kane explained the “Cost Structure” of providing programming to its subscribers..

QUESTIONS FROM THE MEMBERS INCLUDED:

1. Why are there differences between cable providers.
2. Why can you not get certain programming or channels.
3. Why cable franchises generally don’t change hands because the cost of starting up a new franchise or buying another franchisors equipment, power lines, etc., is prohibitive.
4. Complaints about service were discussed.

Closing Prayer was given by Deacon Dennis Hayden. Mtg. adjourned at 9:00 p.m.

DRAWING FOR THE REDSKINS FOOTBALL TICKET RAFFLE WAS HELD AND THE WINNER WAS MARIE WALLACE.

A 50/50 DRAWING WAS HELD. WINNER WAS JACK WALSH, OUR BELOVED V. PRES.
 

 

 

ST. ANN’S MEN’S CLUB MINUTES FOR MEETING OF TUESDAY, 19 JAN, 2010

CALL TO ORDER by President Defibaugh, at 7:00 P.M.

OPENING PRAYER led by Deacon Dennis Hayden

PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE: Recited by Members.
GOD BLESS AMERICA, Led by Victor DeGeorge

WELCOME NEW MEMBERS AND GUESTS: No new members. Our guests were Peggy Nicastri, Pat Johnston, and Hilda Mary Graham.

DEACON’S CORNER: Chaplain Dennis advised members how they can receive more out of attending mass by preparing ahead for mass. We should arrive a little early, study the readings, and pray before mass. Also, we should dress appropriately for mass, and of course, fast for an hour before communion time.

FAITH SHARING: President Tom related some of his experiences and said they have definitely had a strong, positive impact on his spiritual journey.

TREASURER’S REPORT: Given By Victor DeGeorge.

Beginning Balance: $4,763.00
Receipts: 406.00
Disbursements: -1,253.00
Closing Balance: $3,916.00

READING OF PREVIOUS MINUTES: Secretary Perticari read the previous minutes.
Treasurer’s report and Minutes were approved by membership.

SUNSHINE COMMITTEE: Update given by JOE MC INERNEY. Cards were sent to:
+ Giovanni DiCarne re: passing of his wife Patty
+ Bob and Marie Wallace re: Marie’s brother suffering from Alzheimer’s disease
+ Charles Murray who has been ill.

PRESIDENT'S REPORT:

+ Christmas Party. Feedback indicated most people had an enjoyable evening. Neil Cooley and his helpers were thanked by President Defibaugh. Additional comments were that we most likely do not need a disc jockey next Christmas or if we do, we do have some people available as DJ's, at a very reasonable rate. There were several who were under the false impression the club was serving dinner.

+ St. Patrick’s Day party will be held on Saturday, March 13th.

+ Deacon Freebery presented an update regarding the MBS Tuition Assistance Program. Discussions are ongoing between Jen Scott, Dick Johnston, Cliff Embley, Deacon Freebery and Mark Record. The proposed SCRIPT CARD Program is being evaluated. Also, on the 4th of February a tour of MBS is being planned. Lastly, special envelopes targeted for donations to MBS will be considered.

+ President Defibaugh asked for volunteers to help with serving soft drinks at the upcoming Parish & Family Life Committee Pot Luck Dinner on January 31, in Delaney Hall.

GUEST SPEAKER: Mr. Jim Cordie, of Delaware Right to Life spoke on the abortion question. Jim gave a brief background on himself and how he became involved with the Right to Life movement. He discussed his successes in the program and offered the membership to review the website and how the right to life movement protects the unborn by way of education, thru various means, including:
Advertising,
Meetings,
Publications, and
Non-Violent Demonstrations.

Mr. Cordie pointed out that the State of Delaware has one of the highest rates of abortion in our nation.

Closing prayer: Given by Chaplain Dennis Hayden. Mtg. adjourned at 9:00 p.m.

Since it was Mr. Cordie's birthday, a "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" was sung and a cake was provided.

A 50/50 DRAWING WAS HELD. Winner was Bill Ferris
 

 

St. Ann’s Men’s Club - Agenda - 7 PM October 20, 2009

Opening Prayer/Pledge of Allegiance/God Bless America President
Deacon Dennis
Vic DeGeorge

Welcome New Members and Visitors President

Deacon’s Corner Deacon Dennis
Faith Sharing Elliott Flick

Secretary/Treasurer Report Adolpho Perticari
Vic DeGeorge

Sunshine Committee Joe McNerney
Fred Schettig

President’s Report Tom Defibaugh

□ Jim Kennedy – Golf Tournament results.
□ Joe Lane – highway cleanup
□ Communion Breakfast – speaker Msgr. John FitzGerald, AOS; $12 per person; only 100 tickets
□ Survey (Jack Walsh to discuss) – Pastoral Council
□ MBS: Committee Update – Jack Freebery
□ Dues – efforts to collect dues – letters/phone tree
□ Phone Tree: Please provide comments to Adolpho Perticari
□ Sign In Book –
□ Year of the Priest
o Parish Council – Covered Dish supper for Sunday before Super Bowl.
o Men’s Club will assist with providing sodas – need count.
□ Sodality
o Thursday, November 5 meeting of the Sodality after the 8:30 mass will include a presentation on
“Hospice,” by Mary Costello, the Volunteer Coordinator for Delaware Hospice.

□ Thank below folks:
o Elliott Flick for his faith sharing
o Neil Cooley – Christmas Party
o Don Lake – St. Patty’s Party
o Worked the Golf Tournament – Jim Kennedy and his team
o Sat on the raffle distribution committee – Bob Wallace, Dick Johnston, Joe Kane
o helped set-up and conduct the 50/50 drawing – Adolph, Neil, Vic, Al Preziosi

Member Comments/Input Open

Speaker: Alex Sydnor – Executive Director, BEEBE Medical Foundation

November: Executive Meeting: November 10; Regular Meeting November 17: Speaker: Susan Sullivan – Pharmacist, Safeway – Adult Vaccines

50/50 Drawing

Closing Prayer A prayer for priests Deacon Dennis
 

 

ST. ANN’S MEN’S CLUB - MINUTES FOR MEETING - OF TUESDAY, 17 NOV, 2009 

CALL TO ORDER by President Defibaugh, at 7:00 P.M. 

OPENING PRAYER, Led BY Deacon Dennis Hayden. 

PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE RECITED BY THE MEMBERS; GOD BLESS AMERICA, LED BY Victor DeGeorge                               

WELCOME NEW MEMBERS AND GUESTS:   No new members.  We had several guests - wives of our club members.  

DEACON’S CORNER:  Deacon Dennis Hayden spoke on our relationships with God and Jesus.  Women more readily fall in love with God and Jesus, compared to men.  Jesus wants us to pray to him.  Jesus wants to pour out his love to us.  He invites us to be like little children.   Jesus wants us to know he cares about our problems as people, as married couples, as single people. We need to remember Jesus is always with us.  

FAITH SHARING BY:   Elliott Flick volunteered to faith share. Many years ago when Doc Flick had a dental practice, a woman named Miriam applied for a position with Dr. Flick. She was a recent graduate dental student, but had not yet received her License to practice. Elliott hired her as an assistant. Though Miriam is a Muslim, she met and fell in love with a military officer stationed at the Pentagon, who was Catholic. They married and had twin boys, though she almost lost them during childbirth. The twins were raised as Catholics and Elliott became Godfather to the twins.                                                                

TREASURER’S REPORT given By Victor DeGeorge.                                               

    Beginning Balance               $ 8,061.00

    Receipts:                                 1,202.00             

    Sub Total:                                9,263.00

    Disbursements:                       4,500.00

    Closing Balance (11/1/09 )  $4,763.00                       

READING OF PREVIOUS MINUTES: Secretary Perticari read the previous minutes.Treasurer’s report and Minutes were approved by membership. 

SUNSHINE COMMITTEE:  Update given by JOE MC INERNEY. 

Carroll Cooper was recovering from heart surgery.

Reba Ferris, wife of Bill Ferris, was recovering slowly but surely from knee surgery.

 

Planned Calendar of Events - 2010

January 19 - Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH 

February 16 Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH  

March 17 - Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH

March 4 - Day of Recollection – Co-sponsored with Sodality 

March 13 – St. Patrick Day Party – Delaney Hall 

April 20 - Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH 

TBD – Road Clean Up 

May 18 - Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH 

June 6 – Parish Picnic – Ocean View Park – West Street 

June 11– 13 - Men’s Retreat, Malvern 

June 15 - Monthly Meeting, 7 PM, DH

Social after Mass

 No meetings in July – August